Unless otherwise stated, assume everything under "faves" and "yes" cover both giving and receiving. If it's not listed here, it's probably up for discussion - but discussion is the key word there. Astarion's background lends him to some pretty dark possibilities and I'm happy to work that out with anyone who's interested. Several notes are along the lines of "if he's receiving, this will border on dub/non-con" - I'm absolutely into playing that, just be aware.
Astarion has some sexual trauma and a complicated relationship with issues of consent and his own autonomy. If you'd like to avoid those themes, let me know and I'll make sure they don't creep into our tags.
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♡ begging ★ ♡ biting ♡ bloodplay ♡ body worship ♡ bondage ★ ♡ knife play ♡ magic ♡ orgasm control/denial ♡ rough sex ♡ sexual exhaustion
✓ blindfolds ✓ breath play ✓ chastity ✓ clothed sex ✓ cockwarming ✓ corruption ✓ degradation ★ ✓ deep throating ✓ dirty talk ✓ discipline ✓ dubcon ✓ exhibitionism ✓ face fucking ✓ fingering/fingers-in-mouth ✓ frotting ✓ hair pulling ✓ monsters/monstrous forms ✓ multiple orgasms ✓ multiple partners ✓ multiple penetration ✓ oral sex ✓ praise ✓ restraints ★ ✓ sex toys/strap-ons ✓ suspension ✓ shibari ✓ violence ✓ voyeurism
◌ animal transformation ◌ body fluids ◌ breeding ★ ◌ humiliation ★ ◌ impact play ◌ jealousy ◌ masochism ★ ◌ medical play ★ ◌ mind control ★ ◌ noncon ★ ◌ objectification ◌ oviposition ★ ◌ possessiveness ◌ sadism ★ ◌ sensory deprivation ◌ somnophilia ◌ substance use ◌ torture ★
✗ bathroom kinks ✗ body swapping ✗ characters under 18 ✗ infantalism ✗ prolapse